You may have noticed that Christian Advice Site has been rather stagnant lately.  Due to a family illness, I took some time off.  I would like to thank those readers who sent e-mails and messages.  I am looking forward to getting back to the site and have some new things in the works.  Some upcoming activities to watch for will be a new book give-away, a new and improved forum, and hopefully another writer. 

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~April

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Children learn by imitating the behaviors of the people around them.  Speech is learned by mimicking sounds and then connecting those sounds to objects, people or ideas.  A toddler playing house will reenact events that have happened in her own household.  Our children are, at times, a rather uncomfortable reflection of ourselves.  And just as they learn by imitating us, God's children learn by imitating Him.

To be a child of God means to strive everyday to follow His word and live out his commands.  Christians look to Christ as the example we are to follow.  And just as with our own children, imitating Christ is a process.  In the beginning of our faith walk, we learn to imitate the Lord's Prayer and to recite the Ten Commandments.  My son memorized books from my reading them alound long before he could read them.  Only after he had memorized letters, imitated the sounds I made for each letter, and watched how those letters came together to form words, could he read on his own.  Now, after years of practice, he writes his own stories.

The true point of this lesson is that it is okay to be a Christian and still have questions.  God knows he did not give us clear cut answers to everything.  He did give us a way to learn them, though, through the process of learning by imitation.  As we memorize and begin to apply what we have learned, we discover new truths just like my son writing his own stories. 

God prepares each lesson carefully for us as we do for our kids.  I know that my son can't learn to work algebraic equations before he can perform basic addition, subtraction, muliplication and division.  His brain is not developed enough in kindergarten to understand the abstract formulas of trigonometry or calculus.  But through years of imitation by doing math homework and copying teacher's lessons, he will one day be able to.  

If you have questions about faith, or the Bible, or concepts of Christianity, don't get discouraged.  Keep practicing by imitating Christ.  Even if you don't understand right now, someday soon God will deem you ready and reveal a whole new level of His awesome power and grace and omniscience.         

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The long-awaited dawn finally appeared the morning after 9/11.  Most of the country had gotten little, if any, sleep.  The Twin Towers lay in mountains of rubble.  The Pentagon smoldered around the collapsed section of the E Ring.  A remote stretch of land in Pennsylvania was scarred and blackened, the debris field barely recognizable as the remains of a passenger jet.  Official information was hard to come by, and no one yet had any accurate count of the number of victims.

We watched and listened in dismay for a word from our President and First Lady.  At that moment, they were the Father and Mother of the United States.  We wanted Mrs. Bush to comfort us, to stand as a quiet pillar of strength as when we were children and looked to our mothers for calm reassurance when frightened.  Like to our own fathers, we longed for President Bush to reaffirm our conviction that what had just happened to us was unacceptable and would be dealt with swiftly and decisively. 

The rising sunlight revealed the black cloud that could be seen from space still hovering over New York.  Weary searchers continued to frantically clamber over concrete and steel, listening for signs of life.  The horror of the day before still left our mouths agape and tears in our eyes.  Then, something began to change in our neighborhoods, towns and cities.

Across the country, diners and delis filled to capacity as people sought the company of others.  Parents, grandparents, siblings and cousins picked up the phone to call one another and say, "I love you."  Co-workers stopped to buy extra doughnuts and coffee to share around the office.  Children were kept home from school just so the family could spend time together.

Anyone with special training in search and rescue or first response was on the way to New York however they could get there.  The nation stood poised for a single word of what was needed at Ground Zero.  Food?  Done!  Clean water?  Done.  First aid kits?  Already boxed and ready to go.  People who had not set foot in a church in years joined prayer vigils, lit candles and tried to send comfort and strength across the miles to those in need.

We waived at one another on the streets because it felt right.  We smiled at every youth because it seemed on that day they were the most precious gifts our country had.  The nation's defense system was at DEFCON 3, and we swelled with pride as every soldier reported to his or her duty station, rigid with the determination that not one more of us would perish at the hands of the enemy. 

We will never forget 9/11 and the price paid by nearly 3,000 people to the terrorists.  We should not forget September 12, 2001, and the fact that we were not terrorized but galvanized.  What changed the morning after the attacks was our perception of ourselves.  We were not Democrat or Republican, rich or poor, gay or straight, black, white or latino.  There was only one word that described us on that day: American.  That word encompassed everything that we were as a nation and as a people.  It meant that each and every one of us mattered. 

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A friend posed a question on Facebook that has intrigued me, so I thought I would pose the same question to my readers: Do actions equal beliefs?  Is it possible to separate actions from beliefs?

We have gone back and forth on the answer, and I am curious to know your thoughts.  My first response was that actions do not always equal beliefs.  After all, Christians sin every day.  We believe the Bible; we believe in the Ten Commandments and the instructions for what is a sin.  But still, as mere human beings, we sin. 

The next phase of the debate was whether the action changes the belief.  In other words, if you commit a sin, does it mean that you no longer believe that action is a sin?  Personally, I don't think it does.  I think there are too many variables within the human mind and emotions to make an absolute statement that action equals belief. 

For example, I believe it is wrong to steal.  However, if my child were starving and the opportunity arose, I would steal a loaf of bread or food to feed him in the absence of an alternate choice.  That does not mean that I would no longer believe thievery is wrong or a sin.  It would mean that, even believing it a sin, I would still choose that action to avoid my son's death by starvation and willingly accept the consequences of the sin. 

So then comes the dilemma of sin.  The Bible tells us that all sin is equal, and the only unforgiveable sin is blashpemy against the Holy Spirit.  Intellectually, I can grasp that concept.  A sin is a sin is a sin, no matter how you put it.  But emotionally and psychologically, I know that my reaction to the wrongness of a child molester is much stronger than to a mother who steals to feed her child. 

My human emotions and mental need to categorize the world around me create "degrees" of sin.  I absolutely believe that any sin (except the blasphemy one) is forgiveable by God.  But in my own mind, I have a much harder time granting forgiveness to a serial killer than a liar.  God, thankfully, does not, but I do.  I am imperfect, and I know it, and I accept that my imperfections will be answered for.  But still, my actions do not equate to my core belief that all sin is equal.

I suspect that a person's answer to the question posed may rely quite heavily on life experience.  Some of you may have been faced with a situation in which you committed a wrong knowingly, but a wrong that was justified in your own mind.  Justification does not necessarily mean that the wrong becomes a right.  Some of you may not be able to even imagine a situation in which you would knowingly commit an action that went against a belief. 

So tell me, does action equal belief?  Do our beliefs always have the power to override human compulsions and impulses?  Is it possible to make a blanket statement that action equals belief, or does the complexity of human emotion and behavior render it a moot point?

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